Give Back!

Many of us want to make a difference in our community, but we don't have tons of time or money to spare. So, in keeping with the theme of being frugal, and not over-committing yourself in your busy life, I wanted to share a few ideas about how to make a difference without adversely affecting the budget or the schedule.

Take a bag of supplies in to your child's school. It can be as simple as a few packs of loose leaf paper, some pencils, a few glue sticks. Many times, if you are in an office supply store and it's NOT back-to-school time, you can find half-price supplies like these. A few dollars spent there probably won't break your budget, BUT it might well do lots of good to a teacher in need.

Donate your kids' old books. You can take them to a school or your local library. Of course, books that are not paperbacks work best, and it would be especially nice if you donate books in good condition. But even if your library of choice already has the books you donate -- they can probably always use a spare!

Help someone who is hungry. We all drive past someone occasionally with that sign "Will work for food" that just breaks our hearts. Why not make up a small bag and put it in your car, containing some bottled water, cereal bars, crackers and juice boxes? The next time you see someone with that sign, just hand them the bag! My experience with this has been really positive.

Visit your child's school. Who DOESN'T want a good excuse to use a half-day's personal leave? If your child is in elementary school, volunteer to go into their library and read books aloud. The librarian, with enough notice, might arrange for multiple classes to come in during your stay. What a treat for the kids, and a great experience for you too.

If you have a child in Middle School or High School, volunteer to come in to one of their teacher's classes -- pick one that you loved back when you were in school. You can talk to the kids about how this class has helped you in your career. You might just inspire someone!

Help someone who is ill or elderly. Got a neighbor who is old, or recovering from some sort of illness or injury? Why not stop by on your way to the store this week, and ask them if you can pick something up for them? It is likely they will give you the funds for whatever they need, if anything. And since you are going anyway… Why not make that gesture, help someone, and feel more connected to your community in the meantime?

Write a letter! Is there someone who mentored you in school or in your early career, who made a difference? Is there an elected official that represents you who has actually done something right? Maybe there's just a clerk at your grocery store who is always friendly and helpful? Write a letter to thank someone or let them know that you not only notice their good work or deeds, but care enough to show your appreciation. Doing so is only going to encourage people to do good more often!

Give, but not money. Most of us can find a good thrift shop near us that supports some worthy cause. When you start thinking about spring cleaning, set aside a space for things that are just gathering dust in your home. Those paperbacks you have already read, those jeans you keep meaning to fit into again -- all could have a new home with someone who really needs them, while also helping to raise money for the benefit of your community. Many times, these donations ARE tax-deductible, too!

Help clean up! Next time the weather warms up, go on a walk with your spouse or children. Have everyone bring a plastic bag from the grocery store, and walk until everyone has filled up their bag with trash from wherever you are walking. I know, some disposable gloves might come in handy here… But you can make your neighborhood look nicer, get some exercise, and teach your kids to give back all at the same time!