Tough Times

Sorry to have been absent so long, my Internet friends. We have experienced some dark days here in Loudoun County, Virginia.

First, my daughter's step-grandfather passes away on the 17th. He was a wonderful man, who served this Country in the United States Navy for many years. He was also a wonderful friend, father, and grandfather. I am thankful that his family had the chance to say goodbye, and that he went peacefully in his sleep, though he will be sorely missed.

And then last night, the husband and father of friends, passed away quite unexpectedly. He was 49, much too young to be leaving his wife, three daughters, and two grandchildren. My heart is broken for the family he leaves behind. I know there is nothing at this time that could lighten their sorrow.

So, I suppose at this time I am reflecting. It is so important to ask yourself this question: If you or a loved one passed away unexpectedly, do they know how much you love them? When life is good, it is too easy to become overwhelmed with the activities of daily life. We have to remember to let our loved ones know, as much as we possibly can, how much we care -- and that if anything ever happens to US, that we will want them to be happy in knowing how special they were to us.

Life, after all, is fleeting at best. And Life is not ABOUT work. It is not about how much money you have in the bank, the kind of car you drive, or whether your kitchen/bathroom/laundry is clean. Life is about every little bit in between these times, that you can spend with the people you cherish.

Work will go on without us. Housework as well. Eventually all our toils are for naught. Fortunes can come and go, buildings crumble to the ground eventually, and all the finery of our lives will turn to dust one day. After all is said and done, the only lasting legacy you will leave, is the love you gave.

So I would ask all of my readers, in memorial of two wonderful men who have passed away this week, to take the afternoon off. Let the dishes and laundry pile up. And get in the car, or on the phone, to go visit with or talk to someone you care about. Make one more good memory for the two of you to share. And make sure they KNOW how much they mean to you.